Many of us who has gone for a BaZi consultation are often given the impression that whatever is in our chart, it is our final destined life. Period. Whatever good or bad, we have to live with it the rest of our lives.
Many have been convinced to believe that their life is so bad that there is no turning back, that there is nothing they can do about. Some consultants will tend to use fear tactics and the clients have to pay a hefty price to ward-off the bad omen.
Some have to give away their newborn babies to another family as they feared that the birth of a child spells bad luck or tragedy for the family.
Some has even believed that because they are expected to get a windfall in the near future, they decided to help themselves to prepare for it, i.e. by buying lottery, getting loans, etc. to get an even better windfall. Soon they find themselves in debt and have to stay away from public places.
These and many other scenarios are the wrong approach to accept the readings of our BaZi charts. BaZi charts are meant to give us information about ourselves, our personal characters, our strengths and weaknesses. It is meant to help us plan our lives so as to decide when it is a good time or otherwise, to carry out certain activities to achieve our intended objectives.
Assume for one moment that there is no BaZi chart. We know, to a certain extent, our weaknesses. What do we do about it? We work hard to overcome it. We work hard to improve ourselves.
We do the same when we know more about ourselves after knowing our BaZi. A BaZi chart gives us an indication our plus points and negative points. If we have more plus points, we should use it more often to help improve our lives. If we have more negative points, it does not mean it is the end of it. What we need to do is to try to overcome the negative and turn it into something positive.
For example, we find in our chart that we are spendthrift in nature. Does that mean we go out and spend more, just to fulfill our destiny? Of course not. The correct thing to do is we should be more cautious in our spending. This is how we turn it from negative to positive. BaZi charts give us an indication of opportunities and it is up to us to make it good.
The chart simply tells us that our tendency to spend is greater as it is already in our chart. However, with such information placed before us, we can still decide to change our lifestyle and be more frugal. It is still within our means to decide our ultimate destiny, not the charts!
Do not despair when you receive negative news or report about yourself after a BaZi consult. Take this as an opportunity to do the right thing instead of hanging on to the negative things. Our job as a BaZi Consultant is to help you understand the situation you are in today and find the best way to move forward.
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